about the baggage from our past that is affecting
how confidently we date in the present, and at the end of this video I'm gonna give you something that's completely free that I have
been working on recently that I know is gonna
change your dating life. So stay tuned for that. Let's begin. I get so many people
every week coming to me talking about the past.
Talking about how... "Matt, I've been single
for five years straight now." "How do I bring
that up on a date?" Some people saying, "Matt, I've never
had a real partner." "I've never had a boyfriend." "How do I bring
that up to somebody?" Some people talking
about how they have kids, and how do
they have that conversation. We tend to look
at a chapter from our past that is very emotionally charged, or has a lot of
significance to our lives, and then
make that the only story. It's like someone
who's a mother or a father telling themselves
that their only identity in life is as a mother or a father, and that's not true.
They have quirks, idiosyncrasies, they're rounded if they choose to be. It doesn't matter that you
bring up children on a first date, or even in a first conversation. If you've been married before it doesn't matter that
you bring that up on a first date. The moral of this video is not don't bring up your past, it's be more
than one story in your past.
So if you find yourself
going into something going... "You know, Matt,
how do I tell him this?" "How do I talk about this?" It might be the case that you're focusing
on this thing too much. I have women coming to me saying, "Matt, I'm still a virgin." "How do I talk about this?" And I think
you might be thinking about
this too much right now. What matters is
do you have a connection? Are you attracted to this man? You are more than
the story of being a virgin.
What a ridiculous
amount of emphasis to put on one thing. So go into your dating world as a rounded person. Look, I wanna say
something to you right now, because I know that every week an enormous number of people write to me
talking about how they are in a dating rut. Nothing's really
happening for them...
Maybe they've
been through a heartbreak... Maybe they're
coming out of a marriage... Or maybe they've just
been single for a very long time, but whatever is the case
they feel kind of stuck, and they wanna
fresh start at love. I started thinking about what I could do for people that would be quick and easy to kick-start their love life, and get them
back out there again, and I boiled it down to three habits that...
In my mind,
I said, "If you do nothing else that I say," "but you stick to these
three habits in your love life" "it will change
the game in your love life," "and allow you to
find love ten times quicker..." And I took these three habits, and I put them
in a free guide for you so that you can have them today, and start applying
them in your life. All you need to do
is go to 3SecretsToLove.Com The guide will
be there waiting for you. Download it. Start applying those
habits in your life today, and I promise you if you do them you will not
be in a dating rut anymore.
So I made this really simple. Go enjoy it. It's completely free. It's at that link, and I will see you next week..
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